Don't "make excuses for things when ... If you're known for having a positive attitude, you'll earn people's respect, Kerr said. This behavior is especially important for leaders, Kerr said.

People tend to respect those who are responsible and thoughtful ... “Picture yourself in the typical kinds of situations or conversations that make you feel undervalued and disrespected.

You want to make an impact, but you also want to encourage real action and respect from your fellow humans. You don’t want people smiling and nodding before moving on to the next guy.